People tend to suppress their natural inclination toward friendship, as once this emotional drive is exposed in personal life, individuals often feel anxious when facing the outside world. This tendency is especially common in the UK, where people struggle to balance vulnerability with social expectations. They mask their true selves, fearing rejection or emotional pain. In doing so, they become rigid, overly cautious, and emotionally distant. Their inner child remains hidden behind a protective shell, leading to shallow interactions and a loss of genuine connection.
Friendships fade, and love becomes dull and unfulfilling, reduced to something gray and unexciting. Many quote a line from Robert Browning: “Thank God, you created this hard-to-servate guy.†The duality of the human heart is evident—on one hand, there's a desire to be open and fearless in the world, while on the other, there's a need to appear strong and composed, especially in front of loved ones. When interacting with others, especially peers, this facade crumbles, revealing fear and self-doubt.
If I were a psychoanalyst, I might explore how Browning’s gratitude stems from a deep yearning for authenticity. His outer self is brave, unafraid of life’s challenges, free from ridicule and pain. But his inner self, the one that shows off to his beloved, is full of vanity, pride, and exaggerated words. When he faces someone of equal standing, he holds back, afraid of being judged. This internal conflict reflects a deeper fear: the fear of being seen as weak or vulnerable.
This kind of emotional armor leads to a life of isolation and stagnation. The outside world feels dull, while the inner world becomes self-contained and closed off. Such a state is not healthy for relationships. True connections should be spontaneous and free, not built on masks and pretense. A lighter heart, less vanity, and more openness would allow people to connect more deeply.
However, the habit of self-restraint does more than just hide emotions—it fosters self-deception and drains energy. Instead of nurturing positive qualities, people spend too much time protecting a fragile self-image. This habit has serious consequences: it makes people more reluctant to express their true feelings, especially when it comes to friendship. Once an emotional impulse is revealed, they feel exposed and vulnerable.
The result is a monotonous, unexciting life in the short term, and long-term mental rigidity. This is the cost of social fear. It prevents people from living fully and authentically. To break free, we must learn to embrace our true selves, let go of unnecessary fears, and build relationships based on trust and openness.
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